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Isn't it a shame that we discriminate over 72 millions citizens
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We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America

Amendment [IX.] The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.
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We have Kids, We must speak for them

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“Where are you going. America?”
POLITICIANS,

LAWYERS,

JUDGES -

DO YOU TOO

HAVE

CHILDREN ?

PETITION TO THE AMERICAN CONGRESS AND TO THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA TO CONVOKE A SPECIAL WORKING GROUP THAT, REFERRING TO THE IX AMENDMENT TO THE CONSTITUTION, WILL PROTECT AMERICAN CHILDREN FROM A POSSIBILITY OF BEING RAISED IN NEW kinds of “marriage” that cannot be called a normal family, and will preserve what is normal for millenniums -
A RIGHT OF A CHILD TO BE RAISED IN A FAMILY CONSISTING FROM A MOTHER AND A FATHER (a woman and a man).
At the same time, this is also A PETITION TO THE GOVERNMENTS OF THE COUNTRIES OF THE EUROPEAN UNION IN DEFENCE OF THIS VERY RIGHT OF A CHILD, TO PROTECT CHILDREN from the possibility of being raised in a homosexual family.
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All I am writing about America refers also to the European countries. I don’t know laws and regulations existing in each of these countries, but for sure there are many wise people in each of these governments, and it will be their job to create proper laws that would protect children, or to change the laws that could result in children’s harm. Because of my origin, I feel myself also European and it is important to me if Europe will stop deviate in a wrong direction. Besides, it is important to me - as much as to all of us - if this world goes in the right direction, especially that recently it became so small because of technical achievements, and we have such a big influence on each other now.
Let it be a positive influence that leads to good things. Lets also use these technologies to consciously and purposely influence the cause that should be important for every sensible man - the cause of children’s right to be raised in a normal family.
I was born in a country where human rights were not respected - in Poland in times of communism.
For many years, I am a happy citizen of this country - my new home - America. That’s where my children were born.

The youngest one doesn’t have voting rights yet. I am coming out on his behalf in his defense, and also on behalf and in defense of more than 72 million children living in America.

My goal and duty is to ensure a normal life for my children, for my future grandchildren, and for the generations to come.

In American history have been always many people who looked into the future and tried as much as they could to do things that would protect future generations and to provide for them the best life possible.

Democracy is for sure one of the most valuable achievements of the United States of America. But democracy has many faces - it all depends on people, how they see it and interpret it.

Fortunately, above all stands our Constitution and various amendments to the Constitution..

A main fundamental of democracy is that everybody has a freedom of choice as a free man - but freedom has a very wide meaning.
We need

balance

We don’t live alone in this big country. We live among same people as we are, where everyone has the same personal rights; also the right to the freedom of choice. It automatically creates a question of great importance: we have our rights, but - because we are not alone - we also have RESPONSIBILITIES. We also have to have COMMON SENSE.
Learning a new for me democracy, I am horrified seeing that there are people who incline their right to freedom of choice to their personal egoistic needs creating small groups that come up together trying to persuade all the remaining citizens of this country that they are discriminated. It comes to an absurd situation that we - all the majority including myself - are simply terrorized by individuals whose only goal is their own matters.
It has nothing to do with democracy, and to declare ourselves against their demands and claims has nothing to do with attempts to limit their personal freedom as they try to make us believe.
Very wise people in America have foreseen such situations and, to protect the society, they created the IX Amendment to our Constitution that very clearly says, “The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.”
As American nation, we fight to introduce democracy in various countries all over the world. Recently, we pay for it a very high price, not only in terms of money, but also the price that cannot be converted to any money - lives of our soldiers is the price.
Peace to their memory!
We have to prove equal to a task. America is strong thanks to her democratic principles. But if we will be inclining them to the goals of individuals of small groups, we will be getting weaker and weaker, and our enemies just wait for it.
A country is strong only if the basic, smallest organization of every society - family - is strong and protected.
It was like that for millenniums, and it always will. And it makes no difference if somebody is a believer or not - the nature, or God, arranged it this way that procreation requires a couple both genders - a man and a woman.
And they are those responsible for raising their children. TO PROPERLY RAISE CHILDREN - I know it also from my personal experience - nothing is better than a happy, loving each other couple of traditional parents - mother and father - who by their own example help the child to properly develop emotionally and socially.
Yes, I know that there are many anomalies when it comes to raising children - children with single parent, or children with no parents.

That alone is a big challenge for the entire society -

so WHY SHOULD WE ALLOW NEW PROBLEMS TO BE CREATED?
Now, they don’t seam so big to many of us, but THEY WILL APPEAR JUST IN THE NEXT GENERATION - it will be our children’s problem, and their children’s.
There are psychologists that for years talk about it, but politicians don’t react - as if they are deaf and blind.
We - my wife and I - learned a lot right here, in America - from psychology, philosophy, politics... We learned from you, Americans. Like a sponge, we were absorbing all the knowledge that in communist Poland was for us inaccessible. As people that came “from that side”, we had a very fresh view at many things and we were able to notice things...
... things other Americans got accustomed to so much that they don’t notice them any more. Writing all this, we don’t say anything new, it is all based on what has been already written and said by wise people of this country, America, it just has been forgotten by many Americans.
Prentice Mulford
I believe, it’s about time to remind Americans about the great wisdom that exists in this nation.
Joseph Murphy
IT’S ABOUT TIME TO ALSO REMIND THE FAMOUS WORDS of President Kennedy, “And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you --- ask what you can do for your country.”
Each of you knows these words. But which of us follows them? Well, I just want to do that. I deeply believe that I can also count on you.
When many years ago my wife and I had to make a decision - freedom in America or living in a communist cage - we chose a one-way trip. Now this decision becomes even more meaningful: my original homeland is already free - with a significant help of President Ronald Reagan - but, although I am free to come back now, I will not change my decision: America is home to me, to my family and my children (this was President Reagan who so beautifully described whom this wonderful country is made of - people like you and me who - themselves or their ancestors - chose this country as their home,
“I’ve always believed that there was some plan that put this continent here to be found by people from every corner of the world who had the courage and the love of freedom enough to uproot themselves, leave family and friends and homeland to come here and develop a whole new breed of people called American. You look at the beauty of it and… God really did shed His grace on America as the song says.”).
I am calling all the people of good will in America - in my home, in our home - to unite on the cause so important as the future of our country, and to sign this petition.
I am calling all those who know good what I am talking about - please, join us actively, sharing your knowledge and information on this subject - in form of books, tapes, press articles, meetings allover the country, etc.
I am calling for cooperation all the people of good will who, knowing the power and the range of the Internet, realize how much they can do using its possibilities.
Together, we can do a lot for our country.
Don’t let our enemies laugh at us that American families go apart. What kind of example we’re going to set for the countries that just start to build democracy - like my homeland Poland, or for other countries that follow us?
We don’t have to fight for democracy in other countries. We have to be an example of a country where a family is something the most important. Not to be a country of manipulations with the law where a group of people for their self-interest can successfully incline the law and the Constitution to their personal needs.
NOBODY CAN BE ABOVE THE LAW..
My Dad believed that here, in America, is a real freedom and democracy. He was born and raised in a free Poland, and he passed to me his set of values and principles. Knowledge, books and life will teach you lines of conduct - that’s what he was saying.
I am not a politician or an activist, but I know how I can help using the Internet and my knowledge. With the help of the Internet, I will make other countries join us on this cause, but we, Americans, have to be an example of the principles my Dad was talking about.
Poland has gone a long way to freedom. Poles know how to fight - many people know about it, but who knows that the second most democratic constitution in the world after American Constitution was Polish Constitution from May 3, 1791?
Unfortunately, in the country of my origin I couldn’t have enjoyed either freedom or democracy. I came to America in the belief that this country will ensure for me both. And I love America for offering me these two values that are priceless in everybody’s life.
I love her for giving the same opportunity also to my children, and their future children. That’s why I will not let anybody question these rights or take them away from me and from my children - from all of us, American citizens.
Everything is possible
I feel that this is my duty to stand up for them - following the quoted before words of my two favorite presidents - Ronald Reagan and John Kennedy.
I believe that you, my American fellow-citizens - both those who live in this country for many generations, and those who had a privilege to be accepted as citizens of this wonderful country - will join me and sign this petition.
Hoping for the same, as a citizen of a civilized world, I am asking the citizens of the countries of the European Union - my fellow-citizens - to support me with their signatures following the other wise appeal of President Kennedy, “My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.”
[your name]

[your address]

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Suggestions
My wife and I are not lawyers, but we know that there will be people who are familiar with this subject and will know how to set about this task and what exactly should be done.
We suggest creating a working group consisting of people who have the proper knowledge and experience.
This group - taking into consideration the phenomenal IX Amendment to the Constitution - would be working on a new amendment that would clearly and explicitly state that children can be raised only by a couple where parents are of two different genders, it means by a mother and a father - a woman and a man. If chance will so ordain it that one of the parents is no longer with them, and the other parent decided to get married again, a step-parent has to be still of the opposite sex. .
It also has to be clearly stated that single individuals or small groups have no right to blackmail the entire society and to accuse it of discrimination and of limiting their personal rights when the society protests against their egoistic and harmful for others demands. It has to be formulated and stated the way that would eliminate the possibility of such interpretation that is convenient for some crazy lawyers from various states.
It would be all done on behalf of the group of people that has no right to vote, and this group - the number of American children - can be roughly estimated at 70 million.
It seems to be a group big enough to be taken seriously when it comes to its protection.
We must finally protect the future of America.
Our slogan should be,
“Where are you going. America?”
And we cannot remain unconcerned about the future of our older sister, Europe, and of the rest of the world as well.
Our slogan should also be,
“Where are you going, Europe?
"Where are you going, world?”

From Witold father

If you are a citizen of the United States of America, would you allow to twist the Constitution by a small group of people because they only want something for their benefit? Especially if you know that if we don't act in this case, 1/4 of US citizens can be hurt because they cannot speak for themselves and they cannot change anything by voting? This is a group of people most important for a future of America - at least that's what we, adults, claim. And at the same time, we abuse the rights of this group. Yes, by demanding human rights for a single person at the same time we are about to abuse other human beings, our future - American children. How old a person must be to be protected as an American citizen? If a baby was born on American soil, he or she becomes US citizen automatically - right? Our Constitution was created for us, Americans - for all of us, to protect the rights of every single citizen with no regards to their age - right?

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.
This Constitution was meant to protect also future generations. Having the safety of future generations of America in mind, our ancestors added Amendment [IX.] among the first ten Amendments to the Constitution.
Amendment [IX.] The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.
In this amendment, they included the most important for all American citizens statement.
Majority of Americans became automatically American citizens, like my three boys - they were born here, in this beautiful country. My wife and I had to fight to become American citizens. We were born in a place where there was no freedom. Many years ago, we became American citizens. It was a great honor and one of the happiest moments in our lives. But right at that moment, in our minds started to grow a seed that was planted there long before we got US citizenship. It was our desire and conviction that we have to do anything possible to protect the Constitution that became our Constitution and the rights of our kids against any bad thing if we notice such thing.
Our kids were raised in an environment totally different than the one we were raised in. Our attempts brought various results. We realized that it is very difficult to protect kids from a peer pressure, especially when they become teenagers. Each of our three boys is different although they were raised in the same values, not only because each of them represents a different type of personality, but mainly because each of them attended school in different area. This is a very long story and it can be a good material for a study and a book.
Learning how to live in a new country and how to be a parent here, in America, we have simply read over one hundred fifty different publications, books or audio tapes we didn't even know they exist before, because in a communist country they not only did not exist, but some were forbidden.
We felt so happy that we can live here, in wonderful America. But all of the sudden we noticed that some people, in the name of Constitution, do and demand something that would change forever the life of our children, and would influence even more the life of their children. It would be a chain reaction. It is like a ticking time bomb set up for explosion in the future. Why am I so sure that the situation is critical now? Well, I base this conviction on what I learned here, in America, from American specialists who in various books and other publications talk about details from the field of child psychology.
My wife and I had conversation about that, and we were moved by the reaction and comments of our fourteen-year-old son who was listening to this conversation. We think it would be worthwhile if you could hear it from him directly. He knows we decided to take action in this case and he wants to express his feelings too, as a person representing the group that will be effected the most. The group that does not even realize they are about to become victims, although the Constitution should protect also them as the lawful citizens of the United States of America.
We attach the letter written by our son.
We deeply believe that anybody who considers himself a real American cannot disregard our voices.
Sincerely,
Witold

From Jan our son

Hi, my name is Jan W.. I am a fourteen-year-old boy. I live in California. My parents escaped from communist Poland in the eighties to this wonderful free country. They didn't know how it would be like here, but they knew they will be free and happy here.

In America everybody has freedom. But some people want some stupid laws not even thinking one bit about some of America's most important people - America's future - the children of America. They only care about themselves and they only think about laws that they would like for themselves not realizing that in 20-40 years from now it will cause a disaster in the United States and in the world.

One of these stupid laws is the law allowing gays and lesbians get married. That is not such a big problem now, but they will for sure want another extra law that would cause a real disaster: a law to be allowed to adopt children (just as it happened in Sweden or in Holland).
It may not seem like a real disaster now, but think what would happen to these children in 20-40 years, and to their children. Little children that will be adopted by these abnormal marriages will not understand what is going on. It will be a disaster for them mentally. First of all, they will not understand why they have two dads or two moms and the other, "normal" children, have a Mom and a Dad. They will also suffer mentally because other kids will be laughing at them and teasing them because they are "not normal". They will be also raised mentally in a different way that is not good. For example, a child needs a love of a mother and a father so both sides teach a child different things that form a child as a human being. A child needs knowledge and example from a mother and a father, not from two mothers or two fathers. The kid would be confused and would eventually flip.
As they grow up, they will also not understand the way of life. He or she would ask his/her parents where do the kids come from, and the "parents" would teach that a child comes from mother and father. But then, the kid sees something different and doesn't understand: if a child comes from a mother and father why does he or she have two fathers or two mothers? Then the child would wonder: where did he come from?
If the child would be reading the Bible and he would learn that according to the Bible we are children of Adam and Eva, that would also make him confused.
Another problem is that when those children are grown up, they will have their own families and their own children and they will not know how to raise their children in a normal way.
Now imagine the children of our future raised in these circumstances. It would not only be a disaster for them, but it would also be a disaster for us later on in the future - for us as a society. It would be a chain reaction that leads to who knows what.
These are just some of my thoughts, because I think that this idea to give to some people such rights is wrong, very bad and dangerous. And I want to live in a normal, happy and safe society, and I want America to be a country of happy people.
Sincerely,
Jan

From Rosa my wife

I have read what my husband and my son wrote. I totally agree with them. I am shocked by such a close possibility of such disaster. I pray God he does not allow it to happen. I always liked it very much that Americans are aware so much of the importance of this fundamental element of every society - a family, and that whatever they do they have happiness of children in mind. That's why, I first couldn't believe that such a law could pass in USA.
Please, think for a moment about what my husband and my son wrote. To me, this is a horrifying picture of our future. It would be very hard to find a family model to follow. What today is obvious - what values are good and help to build and maintain a happy, sound society - will become unclear and will make us get lost in this chaos we are about to begin creating today.
Please, don't let it happen!
Sincerely,
Rosa
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Would you like to share with us any examples how the family a child grows in influences his/her personality and behavior? .
Who would you like to be a role model for American children?
Are family values still important for Americans? What about you - are they important to you?
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Do you think the family model changed within the last fifty-forty years? If yes - are these changes positive or negative?
Didn't we go too far in accepting our kids' right to freedom?
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